Sex Toys

Compare different types of stimulation, sizes, shapes and features to find a sex toy that matches your preferences and experience level.

Find the Right Sex Toy for You

Sex toys come in many different forms, from compact external stimulators to insertable toys, masturbators, wearable products and couples toys. The easiest way to choose is to start with the type of stimulation you want and then compare products within that group.

You may be looking for external stimulation, internal stimulation, penetration, vibration, penis stimulation, anal or prostate stimulation or something designed for shared use. Once that is clear, size, shape, power and additional features become much easier to compare.

What Are Sex Toys?

Sex toys are products designed to provide or enhance sexual stimulation. They can be powered or non-powered, used externally or internally and designed for solo or partnered use.

Some toys focus on one specific sensation, while others combine multiple functions. A dildo, for example, relies mainly on shape and manual movement, while a vibrator adds powered vibration. Masturbators surround or stimulate the penis, and couples toys may be wearable or designed around shared control.

Different Types of Sex Toys

The EroGoods collection includes sex toys across a wide range of categories. Understanding the main types is the quickest way to narrow down your choice.

Vibrators

Vibrators use powered vibration and are available for external, internal and combined stimulation. Popular types include clitoral vibrators, rabbit vibrators, G-spot vibrators, wands and couples vibrators.

When comparing vibrators, look at where the stimulation is focused, the shape of the toy, the intensity range and the control method rather than choosing only by the number of vibration modes.

Dildos

Dildos are non-powered insertable toys available in many different lengths, diameters, shapes and levels of firmness.

Realistic designs, curved G-spot dildos, double-ended toys and strap-on compatible models all provide different experiences. Size and shape are particularly important when comparing dildos.

Sex Toys for Women

Sex Toys for Women include clitoral toys, rabbit vibrators, G-spot vibrators, classic vibrators, wands, mini toys and app-controlled designs.

Start by deciding whether you prefer external, internal or combined stimulation, then compare size, shape and power within that category.

Sex Toys for Men

Sex Toys for Men include masturbators, cock rings, prostate massagers, anal toys, penis sleeves, extenders and penis pumps.

Different male toys focus on very different sensations, so first decide whether you want penis, prostate, anal or wearable stimulation.

Couples Sex Toys

Couples Sex Toys are designed for shared or partnered use and can include wearable vibrators, remote-controlled toys, strap-ons, sex toy kits and other products that can be incorporated into sex together.

When choosing a couples toy, consider who will use or wear the product, where stimulation should be focused and whether remote or app control is important.

Massage Wands

Massage Wands typically use a broad vibrating head for strong external stimulation. They are available in compact and larger designs with different power levels and controls.

A wand may suit you if you prefer vibration spread across a larger area rather than concentrated through a small tip.

Glass Sex Toys

Glass Sex Toys are typically firm and smooth, making their shape and dimensions particularly noticeable during use.

Check the intended use and dimensions of the individual product carefully. Material alone does not tell you where a toy is designed to be used.

Metal Sex Toys

Metal Sex Toys generally offer a firm, weighty construction and smooth surface. Their firmness means pressure and positioning can feel more direct than with softer or flexible designs.

As with all insertable toys, choose according to intended use, dimensions and base design rather than material alone.

How to Choose a Sex Toy

There is no single best sex toy for everyone. The most useful way to choose is to narrow your options in the right order: stimulation first, then size and shape, then features.

Choose by Type of Stimulation

• External stimulation: consider clitoral vibrators, wands and other external stimulators.
• Internal stimulation: compare dildos, classic vibrators and G-spot toys.
• Internal and external stimulation together: consider rabbit vibrators and other dual-stimulation designs.
• Penis stimulation: explore masturbators, sleeves and other Male Sex Toys.
• Prostate or anal stimulation: choose toys specifically designed for that intended use.
• Partnered use: browse Couples Sex Toys.

For a broader step-by-step guide, visit our How to Choose a Sex Toy page.

Consider Size

Size matters most with insertable and wearable toys. Product images are not a reliable way to judge dimensions, so compare the actual measurements in the product specifications.

For insertable toys, diameter and insertable length are generally more useful than total length. If you are new to insertion, a slimmer design can provide an accessible starting point.

Compare Shape

Shape affects where and how a toy makes contact. Straight toys provide flexible positioning, while curved designs can provide more targeted internal contact. External toys can use narrow tips for focused stimulation or wider surfaces for broader contact.

Think About Firmness and Flexibility

A softer or more flexible toy can move more easily with the body, while a firmer toy maintains its shape and transfers pressure more directly.

Two toys made from the same broad material category can still feel very different, so consider construction as well as material.

Choose the Right Controls

Powered sex toys can use simple buttons, physical remote controls or compatible smartphone apps. Choose according to how you expect to use the toy rather than automatically choosing the most advanced option.

Simple controls can be easier during solo use, while remote and app control may be useful for partnered or connected play.

Sex Toys for Beginners

If you are buying your first sex toy, start simple. Decide what kind of stimulation you want before comparing advanced features.

For external stimulation, a compact vibrator can be an accessible first choice. For penetration, choose manageable dimensions and a shape that provides good control. For penis stimulation, a straightforward manual masturbator can be easier to understand than a more complicated automatic model.

You do not need to start with the strongest, largest or most feature-rich toy. Learning which sensations you enjoy gives you a much better basis for future choices.

Sex Toys for More Experienced Users

If you already know what you like, look for features that create a meaningful difference from toys you already own. This could mean a different shape, firmer construction, stronger vibration, dual stimulation, automatic movement or connected controls.

Choosing a different type of stimulation often creates more variety than buying another similar product simply because it has more settings.

Powered vs Non-Powered Sex Toys

The main difference is how stimulation is created. Powered toys use motors or other mechanisms for vibration, movement or similar functions. Non-powered toys rely on manual movement, pressure, shape or positioning.

Vibrators are one of the most common powered options, while Dildos are a common non-powered choice.

Neither is automatically better. Choose based on the type of control and sensation you prefer.

External vs Internal Sex Toys

External toys are designed to stimulate areas outside the body, while internal toys are designed for insertion. Some toys combine both types in one design.

If you are uncertain about penetration, an external toy allows you to explore powered stimulation without insertion. If internal stimulation is your priority, focus more closely on insertable dimensions, shape and firmness.

Sex Toys for Solo Use

Most sex toy categories include options that can be used solo. Direct controls and easy positioning are particularly useful when operating a toy yourself.

Think about whether you want to hold and move the product manually or prefer a design that provides powered or more hands-free stimulation.

Sex Toys for Couples

Many conventional toys can be incorporated into partnered sex, but some products are specifically designed around shared use.

Wearable designs, remote controls and compatible apps can allow one partner to control stimulation for the other, while strap-ons and kits introduce different shared experiences.

Explore Sex Toys for Couples for products focused specifically on partnered use.

Rechargeable Sex Toys

Many modern powered toys contain rechargeable batteries. This removes the need for replacement batteries and can be convenient for regular use.

Charging time, runtime and charging method vary between products. Rechargeable does not automatically mean more powerful, so compare the complete product specifications.

Waterproof and Water-Resistant Sex Toys

Water resistance varies significantly between toys. Waterproof, water-resistant and splash-resistant are not interchangeable terms.

Never assume that an electronic sex toy can be submerged simply because it can be cleaned with water. Always check the manufacturer's water-resistance information for the individual product.

App and Remote-Controlled Sex Toys

Remote controls and compatible smartphone apps provide additional ways to control some powered sex toys. Depending on the product, this may allow adjustment of intensity, patterns or other functions without using controls directly on the toy.

Some connected products also provide partner-control features, but capabilities differ by model and app. Check the exact specifications if remote or long-distance use is important to you.

Sex Toy Materials

Sex toys are available in materials including silicone, glass, metal and various other material combinations. Material can influence firmness, flexibility, weight, texture and care requirements.

The way a toy is constructed matters as much as the broad material category. Do not assume that two toys using the same material will have identical flexibility or surface feel.

For detailed information about common materials, lubricant compatibility, cleaning and storage, visit our Sex Toy Materials & Care Guide.

How to Use a Sex Toy

Read the manufacturer's instructions for the individual product before use and check its intended stimulation and any relevant dimensions or controls.

Start gradually and use a lower setting when trying powered stimulation for the first time. For insertable toys, use a compatible lubricant where desired and never force the toy into position.

Only use products for the parts of the body they are designed for. In particular, toys intended for anal insertion should have a suitable retention feature such as a sufficiently wide flared base or handle.

Cleaning and Caring for Sex Toys

Clean sex toys according to the manufacturer's instructions before and after use. The correct method depends on the material, construction and water-resistance rating.

Electronic toys should never be submerged unless the manufacturer confirms that they are suitable for it. Allow toys to dry properly before storage and follow any specific charging or care instructions.

For more detailed guidance, read our Sex Toy Materials & Care Guide.

Sex Toys FAQ

What are the main types of sex toys?

Common types include vibrators, dildos, masturbators, cock rings, prostate toys, anal toys, wands and couples toys. Each category focuses on a different type of stimulation or use.

What is the best sex toy for beginners?

There is no single best beginner toy. Choose a straightforward product with manageable dimensions and controls that matches the type of stimulation you want to explore.

How do I choose a sex toy?

First choose the type of stimulation you want, such as external, internal, penis, anal, prostate or combined stimulation. Then compare size, shape and firmness before considering additional features such as vibration, rechargeable power or remote control.

What is the difference between a vibrator and a dildo?

A traditional dildo is non-powered and moved manually. A vibrator contains a motor that provides powered vibration and may include different intensities or patterns.

Which sex toys are designed for women?

Sex Toys for Women include clitoral vibrators, rabbit vibrators, G-spot toys, wands, classic vibrators and other designs for external, internal or combined stimulation.

Which sex toys are designed for men?

Sex Toys for Men include masturbators, cock rings, prostate massagers, anal toys, penis sleeves and pumps.

Are there sex toys for couples?

Yes. Couples Sex Toys include wearable vibrators, remote-controlled products, strap-ons, sex toy kits and other designs that can be incorporated into partnered use.

What size sex toy should I choose?

For insertable products, compare insertable length and diameter rather than judging size by photographs. Choose dimensions according to your comfort and experience rather than assuming larger is better.

Are rechargeable sex toys better?

Not necessarily. Rechargeable toys can be more convenient, but power, runtime and overall performance depend on the individual product.

Are all sex toys waterproof?

No. Some are waterproof, others are water-resistant or splash-resistant and some should not be submerged. Always check the manufacturer's rating for the individual product.

Can sex toys be used by couples?

Yes. Many conventional toys can be used during partnered sex, while dedicated couples toys are specifically shaped or controlled for shared use.

What material is best for a sex toy?

There is no single material that is best for every product or preference. Materials differ in firmness, flexibility, weight, texture and care requirements. Compare the complete construction and follow the manufacturer's instructions.

What lubricant should I use with a sex toy?

Lubricant compatibility depends on the material and construction of the individual toy. Follow the manufacturer's recommendations and consult our Sex Toy Materials & Care Guide.

How should I clean a sex toy?

Follow the cleaning instructions supplied with the individual product. The correct method depends on its material, construction and water-resistance rating.

How do I find the best sex toy for me?

Start with the sensation you want, then compare the relevant product type, size and shape. Once those basics match your preferences, consider additional features such as vibration strength, rechargeable power, waterproofing or remote control.